do it now
do it now
Well your relationship isn't going to go anywhere now, just meet up and break it off.
Well, it was fun while it lasted, now move on :)
i have a feeling that she's crying because she knows it's over, but she hasn't got the balls to tell you so, so she's just blowing it off by saying she's "messed up"
sorry. i could also be completely wrong! but it really doesn't seem like this is going anywhere good, so you're doing both of you a favour by being the one to finish it
but i fear i may make her problems worse, and whilst you may say "oh but she's hurting you" etc yes that's true but i do still love her and i don't want to add to a mountain of shit for her which i don't know the full severity of
Regardless a relationship without sexual attraction is not a whole relationship. Quit rationalizing and putting it off, go out with dignity.
It is just delaying the inevitable though, you both know it's going to end.
She has all these problems but doesn't want to talk to you about them so what are either of you supposed to do? You'll just carry on not communicating, plus she basically just said she doesn't find you attractive and that's important for relationships.
She should really seek out a therapist if she's being how she says she is.
You're making excuses for yourself to not dump her. It's not your job to get her life in order, the only person that can work out her problems is herself. You might want to believe you are the most important person in the world and you breaking up with her will causes her to go over the edge, but there's not even the remote possibility of that happening. Seriously, dump her and learn from the experiences you had.
This thread speaks the truth. Go forth, young padawan, and do what must be done.
I don't understand why some people have a huge problem with their emotions sometimes I mean it's not hard
cueball youre like 17 or something right?
shes being way too overdramatic about the entire situation
cueball that's a retarded situation, if I'm remembering correctly you haven't seen her in months and she just cries the entire time you hang out. Clearly she's sending a message, if she was still into the relationship she'd cry on her own time and want to hang out with you instead. And besides that what I gather from "I'm not sexually attracted to you, just emotionally" is "I want to break up but still be friends."
Communication is obviously not a big part of that relationship
And to me, boredom is a perfectly good excuse to act like a jackass on the Internet in substitute of my generally kind/understanding self.
You can reply to this if you want but I'm not gonna say anything as I really don't feel like it
So, I got here to get some advice of you guys.
Posted the story in fast threads somewhere before but this place seems more fitting.
There's this girl which I know for nearly 3 years now and I started 'liking' her about one year ago. She was in a relationship and friendzoned me but now I managed to slip out of there and even persuaded her to break up with her BF, because she wasn't happy at all and he's a douche.
Suddenly the next day she made out with another dude and did it again the next day (today, right as I write this.)
She told me she just wants to "play around" a bit, after breaking up and being single again and asked me if I could give her some time, but actually I'm scared that she might start a new relationship with the new dude. Should I attempt to interfer and make my move or wait?
The new dude is 28 and in a relationship himself by the way, the girl im talking about is 18. so 10 years difference.
I was dating this girl for a good 3 months and we were really happy together. Last friday we were totally fine, with pretty much nothing antagonizing our relationship. She told me two days ago that she thought we should break up. She seemed determined to break up and not talk it out, so we broke up. With girls before I've felt angry or regretful after breaking up with them... But I just want to be with this girl again. I asked her why she broke up with me on facebook and she said she felt "caged" at how serious it was getting. And from all accounts, her facebook wall, etc, she seems happy without me. Is it right for me to try and get her back? Is it possible to get her back?
I'm in love... enough stuffing around, today's the day I let her know how I really feel. 26 years and I've never felt this way about someone EVER, it's crazy! I'd do anything for her and I'm hoping she feels the same way. Just sent her some nice flowers at work, will see how that goes down... I'm sure she'll love it but you just never know right?
Fuck I feel like I'm 13 or something.
youre acting like it too!
here's a tip, if you she has no idea how you feel about her, its not love
and the worst way to tell her is to buy her something, then it feels like there are weird obligations money-wise
they wouldn't be just flowers, if they would be just flowers he wouldn't be sending them
It is in a small way 'just flowers'. I maybe exaggerated a bit when I said enough is enough, what I mean is I'm not going to be coy about it any more. I have no doubt she's aware about how I feel for her, and that's been hinted at, but she's a bit like me in that we've always been a bit...not 'shy' but just not overly expressive about our feelings. She knows I love giving little gifts like that (and I have done so in the past, just not to quite as big a degree) so I do know she'll appreciate it and acknowledge that it's a bit of a step up for me. I'm not diving in head first, I just want to make it clear how much I care for her.
I suppose for you guys, without knowing the history of her life and the time between the two of us, it's not really easy for you to make a call on the effectiveness or sanity of what I do with her. All I can say is that I know it feels RIGHT, and I can only hope she feels the same way. We'll see...
She loved it... Will probably talk to her more a bit later since she's at work but, that's what I was hoping for :) Just got a couple of messages from her saying everyone else in the office is jealous. Ace!
My girlfriend got shipped off to georgia because her parents are fucking psycho :(
I didn't even get a good bye.
I hate everything. I love her.
That was also on year ago, but she said I'm getting more and more complicated for her, becuase she starts feeling in ways that go beyond friendshiep, when thinking of me.
But yeah, that was some time ago. Mhh.