sex is better though
Ill leave it for the second date!
Ill be honest though, i'm a terrible kisser, no matter how much practice i have
its like my handwritting
No offense but I don't think you have been practising enough
I went out with that girl again, we had another great time, we laughed and talked for a long time and it overall turned out great. Just one confusion though, when we got close to her home, we have gone our separate ways before getting really near either house, today when we got close I offered to walk her home, but she said no even when I offered multiple times, what does that mean? I have made it clear that I am not some dick who just wants to sleep with her, I haven't even made a move to kiss her at all even against all my feeling towards her.
And I don't even know if I should call it a date or not because it has not been acknowledged by either of us that it was a date, but we have just walked around a large area together for like 3-4 hours.
i give my fingers blowjobs if they have ketchup on them
I am really depressed not knowing if we are going out or not, because I don't know if I can hold her hand or have ANY FUCKING REAL HUMAN INTERACTION other than talking, I love spending time with her, but I can't go on not knowing, I have a great time but I can't help but feel that I have really fucked up my not holding her hand or shit like that. I just don't know what to do.
Just an update to my situation that some of you may or may not remember. I really want to ask the girl out, but there hasn't really been an opportunity (the two of us haven't been relatively alone). I know trying to catch her after class is an option but I feel it would be easier if I'm talking to her beforehand or something.
Although, if you're getting worked up over a single girl like this, it might be time to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation a bit. You shouldn't feel the need to kill yourself because someone may or may not be going out with you.
You need to take a step back and look to balance your emotions. You're still in high school and you still have your youth. You'll find someone, even if it may not be her.
I just had a talk with a good friend who just simply advised me to be patient because we have a lot in common and we enjoy eachothers company.
The reason you shouldn't ask her out is because of your post in the "Depression Chat Thread." Thinking about killing yourself because you can't ask her out and saying "I won't spend another 17 years alone because I lose her" because you don't have her is not normal thinking. Work on changing your mindset before even considering going further than friends with her.
Euuuugh. I didn't ask that girl out. I've told myself I didn't really get a decent chance tonight and while that's partially true it might be half rationalization. Regardless, I got home, put my hand on the doorknob and went aaaaaaAAAAAUUUGGHH fuck now I have to wait around like a twat another two days. I think I might die of anticipation.
Now if you'll excuse me:
It's times like these I'd rather people flat-out told me they weren't interested rather than leaving me hanging on my feelings. It hurts when you find out she's interested in another guy when she confides said information with your best friend.
Hi there, I come seeking advice.
So yesterday our college had it's Valentines ball. Skipping out most of the story, a girl who I think was into me and I her snogged in what was probably a moment of drunken ecstasy. The problem is that I've upset her somehow and her friends are giving me shit for it.
I plan on talking to her on Monday, but I don't really know what I should say. Any advice there?
so i've been with the girl from my date yesterday and we were talking we agreed that a relationship would ruin what we have and decided to be just friends with benefits, then we see how it goes from then on.
lets see how this goes, kind of relief for me since i was worried she was one of those needy relationship girls
Friends with benefits is a really awesome thing, but usually it ends bad.
Either way someone is starting to having feelings or finds another guy. Although I prefer a full relationship.
the 2nd option isn't bad at all, because to begin with you guys declared "friends with benefits"
We discussed how we should start becoming real friends and then moving on our thing as we go, so being friends with benefits is really great especially since we get to become friends AND have the benefits of a relationship without being in one. All for one day that we do have a relationship it will be less prone to failure.
seems like a good plan
Sounds a bit weird though and does not make any sense. Just take things natural.
But everyone is different, eh?
So I went to go home (family home) today to get a nice break, but it was snowing and the train was cancelled. And then the next train was delayed. And then cancelled. So I just went back to my house, gonna stay in with a book and a glass of wine. Or a J.
Also I've decided to actually try and quit smoking cigarettes! Like properly. I have this snazzy e-cig to help:
Now that I think about it it was best I didn't do anything last night since I had absolutely no idea what to do with her. We live in a smallish town and neither of us have cars. That limits us slightly for options.
I should see her tomorrow so that gives me today to figure something out.