[kitesail]

I've been having stuff happen fairly rough because of confusing gender bidnastiness and whatever in addition to a move after my first year in high school from a town I've lived in forever. I'm trying to set goals and whatever to distract myself from the move by going to a convention dressed as a fictional character of the opposite sex. It's kind of really dumb but I'm going to try my darndest to be able to pass despite my relatively burly build. Are there any advice or whatever for this?

[slayer20]

I'm going to see if I can't talk to my mom tonight about scheduling an appointment with my therapist. I know what I want down now. And I'm going to get it done.

I can't stand just sitting around like this anymore. I don't care if I get fired or not. If I have to move, well that just might be better for me anyway.

I've come to the conclusion that HRT isn't really what I wanted. So instead I have chosen to take the path of plastic surgery to look more feminine. I certainly hope none of you look down on me for that, but I want to look like a girl. Even if I am a guy. My therapist will help me get started in the right direction, and I'll be able to talk about a few other things I've been having problems with.

[Alice3173]

slayer20 posted:

I certainly hope none of you look down on me for that, but I want to look like a girl. Even if I am a guy.

That's actually exactly opposite of how it is for me.

[dreukrag]

kitesail posted:

I've been having stuff happen fairly rough because of confusing gender bidnastiness and whatever in addition to a move after my first year in high school from a town I've lived in forever. I'm trying to set goals and whatever to distract myself from the move by going to a convention dressed as a fictional character of the opposite sex. It's kind of really dumb but I'm going to try my darndest to be able to pass despite my relatively burly build. Are there any advice or whatever for this?

Shave your face, until it is really smooth, I've found eletric razors to work the best when doing so as it avoids irritating your skin (at least not as much as a razor would), and you can smear just a little bit of red/orange lipstick over it once you're finished to cover up that dark blue / black tone that beard leaves on your face. Use padding to get a more feminine figure.

You should check this: http://www.seahorsesoc.org/resources...r-passing.html

slayer20 posted:

I'm going to see if I can't talk to my mom tonight about scheduling an appointment with my therapist. I know what I want down now. And I'm going to get it done.

I can't stand just sitting around like this anymore. I don't care if I get fired or not. If I have to move, well that just might be better for me anyway.

I've come to the conclusion that HRT isn't really what I wanted. So instead I have chosen to take the path of plastic surgery to look more feminine. I certainly hope none of you look down on me for that, but I want to look like a girl. Even if I am a guy. My therapist will help me get started in the right direction, and I'll be able to talk about a few other things I've been having problems with.

HRT would still make your face look more feminine and it would also help with the body, why not do it? Or is it because you don't want to go full time, just to have a more feminine look?

[slayer20]

dreukrag posted:

HRT would still make your face look more feminine and it would also help with the body, why not do it? Or is it because you don't want to go full time, just to have a more feminine look?

Right, just a more feminine look.

[Herr Sven]

My main problem (at the moment) is the fact that I have enough excess subdermal fat for it to be easily noticed. And it's in the wrong places.
I'm trying to loose weight, though it's a slow process. Any ideas of how I could make it less noticeable in the meantime?

[slayer20]

Herr Sven posted:

My main problem (at the moment) is the fact that I have enough excess subdermal fat for it to be easily noticed. And it's in the wrong places.
I'm trying to loose weight, though it's a slow process. Any ideas of how I could make it less noticeable in the meantime?

Only thing I could think of is to use bindings.

[Herr Sven]

Right... I'll have to look into those.

I'm going to Komvux in August to finish the grades necessary for studying physics at a university. Would be nice to be able to come there as a woman...

[J. Jett]

School's over, time to start living full-time!

[slayer20]

Going to call the place where I see my therapist and see if I can't schedule an appointment sometime soon.

Life is going to get very very bumpy from here on out...

So much stuff to pay for.

[stuatr lititle]

I bought a miniskirt help I have never done this before aaaAAAAAAAA

I haven't put it on and it was somewhat of an impulse purchase but for now it is hidden in my dresser and I don't know what to say.

[LukeyxD]

stuatr lititle posted:

I bought a miniskirt help I have never done this before aaaAAAAAAAA

I haven't put it on and it was somewhat of an impulse purchase but for now it is hidden in my dresser and I don't know what to say.

Try it on!

[Inufin]

LukeyxD posted:

Try it on!

Don't forget to share.

[verablue]

this thread

(User was banned for this post ("Why reply?" - Craptasket))

[HorizoN]

verablue posted:

this thread

Witty~

[verablue]

it's almost worse than all the people on tumblr and reddit combined!

[LukeyxD]

What's with all the bad trolls lately? It takes more time for them to register, get banned, and make a new account than it actually does to ban them.

[dreukrag]

Shaved my legs, feels so good and weird at the same time

And apparently mach 5 blades can still cut your skin.

[Viidya]

Everything can cut your skin also heres some shows/movies/documentrys(dunno if i spelt that right but ;z)

http://allthingsqueer.co.za/archives...medfilms.html/

One that im watching is on that list following 4 collage f2m/m2f in there first year of collageplaylist

Transgeneration
http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL30BFBE3E02FD022E

[l l]

allthingsqueer.com


ugh that is such a terrible word like really

[Ereunity]

slayer20 posted:

Right, just a more feminine look.

Have you tried anti-androgens and letting your body's natural estrogen make you look more feminine?

[HorizoN]

well so apparently my math teacher accidently outed me while handing a test back.

weird thing is, is that nobody thought anything of it

Edited:

also I never post here or anywhere anymore

[l l]

yep the thread started dying when people made some skype group and acted like assholes to a few people on said group

[HorizoN]

l l posted:

yep the thread started dying when people made some skype group and acted like assholes to a few people on said group

I heard of the Skype group but never realized people were actually assholes on it.

never went on it really

[Pie_Tony]

l l posted:

yep the thread started dying when people made some skype group and acted like assholes to a few people on said group

Why can't everyone be nice to each other? ;_;

Also sup cool cats, thought I'd tag in here seeing as a few steam-friends of mine are trans/CDers.

[stuatr lititle]

LukeyxD posted:

Try it on!

I'm leaving for Georgia tomorrow, but when I return in a week I'm gonna have to man (or lady, whatever dude) up and try it on. I've never actually done much* of the crossdressing thing but it's always been a thing I've been attracted to and wanted to do.

*Aside from makeup. I've done makeup and I look wonderful thank you very much.

[T-Sonar.0]

l l posted:

yep the thread started dying when people made some skype group and acted like assholes to a few people on said group

What the hell are you smoking?

[HorizoN]

Pie_Tony posted:

Why can't everyone be nice to each other? ;_;

differing views on things?

not entirely sure

[l l]

T-Sonar.0 posted:

What the hell are you smoking?

Please clarify what you don't understand.

[T-Sonar.0]

l l posted:

Please clarify what you don't understand.

All of it?

We never acted like assholes to anyone in the group?

[l l]

T-Sonar.0 posted:

All of it?

We never acted like assholes to anyone in the group?

uhm yeah

have you missed the posts about people leaving the thread or going away? thats due to skype abuse

stop being mean k thx

[Zeldy]

Never seen anyone be an asshole in the skype chat, what are you talking about.

[Inufin]

l l posted:

uhm yeah

have you missed the posts about people leaving the thread or going away? thats due to skype abuse

stop being mean k thx

I would be glad to receive proof of these people who left the thread or went away because of the skype abuse. Links please.

There is no abusing in the chat and even if we managed to have some drama we all have talked and sorted it out. The chat is a much more relaxed environment and there is plenty of happy things going on and supporting each other who have problems.

I still read this thread just as actively as before and post my trans-related things here.

Everyone from here are invited to the chat, so the only reason for not being in the chat is that one doesn't want to join.

[Pie_Tony]

Inufin posted:

I would be glad to receive proof of these people who left the thread or went away because of the skype abuse. Links please.

There is no abusing in the chat and even if we managed to have some drama we all have talked and sorted it out. The chat is a much more relaxed environment and there is plenty of happy things going on and supporting each other who have problems.

I still read this thread just as actively as before and post my trans-related things here.

Everyone from here are invited to the chat, so the only reason for not being in the chat is that one doesn't want to join.

there's a chat?

this might motivate me to actually use skype.
even if it is just to talk to more people.

[Skelmech]

Yeah | | i'm not really sure where you're getting your information but we've only had 2 spats of drama and they've both been worked out in a friendly manner, and even they weren't that bad

[slayer20]

ViralHatred posted:

Have you tried anti-androgens and letting your body's natural estrogen make you look more feminine?

Never thought about that. I'll have to look that up. I know I said I made my decision but nothing is set in stone at this point. Still have to talk it all over with my therapist.

[KonKitten]

I would like a re-invite plz. I miss occasionally talking to you lot in realtime. :c

[slayer20]

I wouldn't mind getting in on some conversations as well.

[redback3]

tranny, LET THE FLAME WARS BEGIN! (jk)


anyway, I feel extremely ill and I feel like something is eating away at me from the inside, I'm getting a new mic to do voice acting for a new gmaster video and other things! Fun!

[DiscoInferno]

I left the chat because I just didn't want 1000s of unread messages every few seconds.