1. Post #681
    Rammlied's Avatar
    May 2010
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    I have four beanies :V I wear them all the time because I haven't dyed my roots in months.
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  2. Post #682
    SirCrest Sexual Enthusiast
    wingless's Avatar
    August 2008
    13,293 Posts
    Here's a picture of me.
    It may just be me, but I have a fairly masculine face (and the phone quality is making my acne look generous)
    Sorry about the terrible picture quality picture phone
    You said you were ugly before, you look good, and will look better post-hrt.
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  3. Post #683
    Rammlied's Avatar
    May 2010
    3,474 Posts
    It's probably going to be a few months before I can convince my mom to do HRT. And tbh I kind of want to have my own room before I do that because my brother is kind of a cunt
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  4. Post #684
    SirCrest Sexual Enthusiast
    wingless's Avatar
    August 2008
    13,293 Posts
    Does anyone even know the normal waiting time before HRT? The waiting is killing me.
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  5. Post #685
    Solece's Avatar
    December 2009
    385 Posts
    Did someone say beanies?


    Also my new thigh highs arrive today yeeee :3
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  6. Post #686
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    May 2010
    586 Posts
    Does anyone even know the normal waiting time before HRT? The waiting is killing me.
    It varies from place to place, therapist to therapist, and physician to physician. Where I am, I have to wait until I'm 18 before a Physician will do anything for me.
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  7. Post #687
    Head over heels in love with Pudding~
    HorizoN's Avatar
    January 2012
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    Does anyone even know the normal waiting time before HRT? The waiting is killing me.
    3-5 months here, then an interview.

    Also Ramm ya look better than me clearer face and everything.
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  8. Post #688
    Rammlied's Avatar
    May 2010
    3,474 Posts
    That's the phone quality. My face is covered in acne scars :V
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  9. Post #689
    Delicious Caramel
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    June 2006
    1,416 Posts
    Some people take longer than others, look at timeline Riodoku posted and the one I posted. The changes on the one I posted were really fast while the changes on the one Riodoku posted were pretty slow.
    True I guess. But I'm just kind of worried since I've already started having breast development, and I still don't think I look even remotely more feminine.

    I don't want to be just a guy with breasts, especially not over here.
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  10. Post #690
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    HorizoN's Avatar
    January 2012
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    meh
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  11. Post #691
    Liamhailhail2.0's Avatar
    June 2011
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    I never know what to say in this thread, you guys talk about soo much!

    Not in a bad way though.
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  12. Post #692
    Hello Handsome
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    February 2010
    9,598 Posts
    we talk about shit that happens to us, the conversation is not limited to just things pertaining to 'trannys'

    Edited:

    well i guess it does pertain to them, since many of you are, in fact, trannys
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  13. Post #693
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    December 2011
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    Idk what this makes me, but I really think the words transgender and genderqueer are disgusting, I mean the people themselves are cool but I hate the words that are used to describe them
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  14. Post #694
    Catgirl Maid
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    January 2006
    6,875 Posts
    I've honestly never heard someone use "genderqueer" to describe someone before.

    But saying someone is transgendered seems perfectly fine to me.
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  15. Post #695
    Hello Handsome
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    February 2010
    9,598 Posts
    I'm perfectly fine with 'transgender', it doesn't sound odd to me at all.
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  16. Post #696
    Head over heels in love with Pudding~
    HorizoN's Avatar
    January 2012
    5,544 Posts
    'Tranny' on the other hand..
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  17. Post #697
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    May 2010
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    Genderqueer isn't being transgender, it's not identifying as either gender, or both.
    I don't know why you'd think transgender is disgusting, it's about as politically correct as you can get and it describes the person perfectly.
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  18. Post #698
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    May 2010
    264 Posts
    Genderqueer isn't being transgender, it's not identifying as either gender, or both.
    Someone who is genderqueer is transgender.
    They identify as something other than the gender they were assigned at birth, that makes them transgender.
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  19. Post #699
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    October 2008
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    jus' incase no one in here knows, "tranny" is generally a slur, akin to chink, nigger, etc

    also tumblr p.much borks my images and makes them look like shit so here's a bad pic of me



    like 3 weeks into hormones yo
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  20. Post #700
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    July 2009
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    Idk what this makes me, but I really think the words transgender and genderqueer are disgusting, I mean the people themselves are cool but I hate the words that are used to describe them
    I don't like transsexual, and genderqueer I'm on the fence about, being called queer pejoratively a good amount of times, though it's hard to find a better term for. Transgender is what I'm more cool with, since it's more of a focus on gender as opposed to sex. I usually say trans though, much more catch-all and inoffensive.

    Tranny or trap, or drag queen, are terms i find kinda shitty though
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  21. Post #701
    Creepy miku expert
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    April 2010
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    Tranny or trap, or drag queen, are terms i find kinda shitty though
    All three of those terms are specific to certain people rather than transgender people in general. (And I'm pretty sure drag queens aren't even transgender in the first place. They're just crossdressers who are very obviously men and go out in public as such.)
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  22. Post #702
    Catgirl Maid
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    January 2006
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    All three of those terms are specific to certain people rather than transgender people in general. (And I'm pretty sure drag queens aren't even transgender in the first place. They're just crossdressers who are very obviously men and go out in public as such.)
    More like, crossdressers who dump their face in a bucket of makeup and go out in public as such.
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  23. Post #703
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    HorizoN's Avatar
    January 2012
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    Well. One thing's for certain now.

    14H skinny jeans are a pain to put on. Time to lose weight.

    Edited:

    But they do eventually go on.
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  24. Post #704
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    June 2010
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    jus' incase no one in here knows, "tranny" is generally a slur, akin to chink, nigger, etc

    also tumblr p.much borks my images and makes them look like shit so here's a bad pic of me



    like 3 weeks into hormones yo
    God damn your hair got long (looks good). And you already are starting to look different.
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  25. Post #705
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    HorizoN's Avatar
    January 2012
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    jus' incase no one in here knows, "tranny" is generally a slur, akin to chink, nigger, etc

    also tumblr p.much borks my images and makes them look like shit so here's a bad pic of me

    -fuckn imgage shite n stuff-
    like 3 weeks into hormones yo
    Wow.....

    So how long did it take you to grow your hair? Mine hasn't changed at all.
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  26. Post #706
    Liamhailhail2.0's Avatar
    June 2011
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    <3
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  27. Post #707
    Riodoku's Avatar
    May 2010
    586 Posts
    God yes. I want a neck like that. And hair like that. Fuck, I need to learn how to do my hair better. I just straighten it now, I have to learn how to style it.
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  28. Post #708
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    HorizoN's Avatar
    January 2012
    5,544 Posts
    God yes. I want a neck like that. And hair like that. Fuck, I need to learn how to do my hair better. I just straighten it now, I have to learn how to style it.
    I want mine like my sister Aliyah's. She has it cut a certain way and straightened. I just love it.
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  29. Post #709
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    May 2010
    3,474 Posts
    Not a fan of the hair, but that is a nice neck :vampire:
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  30. Post #710
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    July 2009
    4,689 Posts
    All three of those terms are specific to certain people rather than transgender people in general. (And I'm pretty sure drag queens aren't even transgender in the first place. They're just crossdressers who are very obviously men and go out in public as such.)
    oh, i forgot to mention that i meant in reference to trans people, for exactly those reasons. I've seen people call trans women drag queens as a way to belittle them. I think drag is cool and ballsy

    And trap, I find, is basically calling someone a tranny, but a sexually attractive one so it's okay. kinda mixing objectification of women with transphobia, but that may just be me being overthinking about the connotations that trans women want to deceive or fool cis men that label holds. definitely not the worst offender though
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  31. Post #711
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    October 2008
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    guys do you not know what transgender means

    transgender is anyone who isn't under the "Gender Binary"
    here's a good pic to explain everyone that falls under the term Transgender


    Transsexual is someone who is either MtF or FtM, nothing else in the above image

    also calling a transsexual person, esp. MtF a trap is to call them a " passing crossdresser who's job is to trick people into sex with their own sex" or w/e so that's really really offensive, and tranny is a slur and shit

    another word for genderqueer is genderfluid or nogender

    Edited:

    Wow.....

    So how long did it take you to grow your hair? Mine hasn't changed at all.
    like a year and a half and i still want it longer
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  32. Post #712
    Head over heels in love with Pudding~
    HorizoN's Avatar
    January 2012
    5,544 Posts
    like a year and a half and i still want it longer
    welp...

    *chop chop*

    I'm gonna try to see how my sister did her's. It's a bit shorter than mine and it looks great.
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  33. Post #713
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    April 2010
    426 Posts
    That picture honestly gives me hope.

    Edited:

    On a side note I'm still seeing my old profile picture and I changed it a few days ago. Is it still of the band oasis?

    Edited:

    Ah clearing my cache fixed the issue.
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  34. Post #714
    Delicious Caramel
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    June 2006
    1,416 Posts
    Just had a wonderful time with my boyfriend. Too bad he had to leave.

    He might stay over tomorrow though. c:
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  35. Post #715
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    June 2011
    1,121 Posts
    Good afternoon thread!
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  36. Post #716
    SirCrest Sexual Enthusiast
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    August 2008
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    'Ello.
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  37. Post #717
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    May 2009
    2,496 Posts
    Love you people, have a picture.
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  38. Post #718
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    April 2010
    426 Posts
    Typically how long is the process from telling your doctor you are trans to starting hormones? I don't think i'll have any complications regarding mental or physical health and I'm at an emotionally stable time in my life. I live in BC if that helps answer my question.
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  39. Post #719
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    July 2009
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    I think you have to live cross gender full time for a year or 2 before you're eligible for hormones, usually. It might vary province to province though. trying to figure out the specifics for my province actually.
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  40. Post #720
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    April 2010
    426 Posts
    I think you have to live cross gender full time for a year or 2 before you're eligible for hormones, usually. It might vary province to province though. trying to figure out the specifics for my province actually.
    Really? I thought that was only for getting surgery. Living cross gender for a full year without hormones sounds like it would be an awful experience.
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