I believe it's wrong. Highly aggressive recruiters will try to fill young kids heads with lies of going out and "defending freedom" when they're really doing nothing of the sort. They aren't old enough to fully understand the consequences of joining the armed forces, getting shipped off to some foreign country and rarely get a chance to come home and see your family anymore before they ship your ass back for some more "defending freedom".
These recruiters are often very aggressive about what they do. When I was 18 I had numerous recruiters approach me in stores and start bothering me about joining the military. I made the mistake of getting talked into giving one of them my phone number to call me with more information, which resulted in this recruiter attempting to call me over 10 times a day until I told him to stop calling and I wasn't interested.
A 17/18 year old almost always isn't wise enough to make a decision like that. But apparently the government is fine with shipping these kids off to die, while at the same time thinking they aren't mature enough to even have a drink until they're 21.
hey at least military service is not mandatory in the states
and listening (or paying attention) to some fuckwit recruiter isn't mandatory either, so really you could have just ignored them or walked off. Anyone that buys into the glory of military service is probably delusional and needs a bit of a reality check anyway
it's a two way street, you can't get recruited without your consent, so I don't see what the big deal is