But everyone called me transphobic...
So I used some (pretty terrible) analogies to try and convey how I'd feel
Not a good idea
I would not like to have sex with a trans person and that's that.
If you think there is something wrong with me for being heterosexual then I think you're the one who is being intolerant
Here I'll do you a favor and make your cat shit analogy not a load of cat shit.
Let's say a friend serves you up a big bowl of chocolate ice cream.
It's delicious and you eat every last bit of it, only for your friend to reveal it was actually coconut icecream with chocolate flavouring added. You love chocolate but absolutely hate coconut.
It looked the same as chocolate, and it tasted the same as chocolate.
As I said before I am very reluctant to attribute "gay" to any of this. Weird but not gay.
It's just the way you went around to say it. It was very disrespectful. If you were going to use the ice cream analogy, you could've just said "it's like giving someone white chocolate telling them it's vanilla when they dislike chocolate".
It's a matter of preference, not cat shit.
Oh wait, you DID say that. Do you not understand how disrespectful that is? Even if it's true, you don't just go around saying that.
which is definitely not how I'd react in the situation we were talking about, ie. finding out your partner was dishonest and didn't tell you they used to be a man
Everyone has sexual preferences. Some people only enjoy sex with virgins, some people prefer sex with a certain race, and some people prefer sex with a cisgender partner.
Honestly I'm on the fence on this particular issue. On one hand I wish we lived in a world where these sort of things didn't matter, but on the other hand I know that that is way to idealistic of a view for humanity. In the end while I wish someone being trans didn't matter in sexual intercourse, the truth is that sort of thing does matter to a lot of people.
reality television show filmed in 2003, created by British TV producer Remy Blumenfeld and originally aired in the United Kingdom on Sky1 in February2004. Hosted by Tim Vincent, it featured six men wooing 21-year-old Mexican model Miriam without revealing that she was a trans woman until the final episode.
Following the completion of the show, it was scheduled to air in November 2003, but the lawsuit by the contestants delayed the airing. They alleged conspiracy to commit sexual assault, defamation, breach of contract, and personal injury in the form of psychological and emotional damage.
the men settled for an undisclosed amount
you seem to think people have difficulty understanding that you would not want to have sex with a trans woman, rather than that they're offended by your insipid analogies
Sanius said that nobody would trust you with that information so soon. you respond by saying people can be confused after having sex with a trans person. what is the connection between the latter and the former
I only know two trans persons at all, and even these are mere suspicions I would never ask or speak about in real life.
are you fucking kidding me?
I have pointed out that people have been psychologically damaged because a trans person has hid the fact (with a source, and the precedence is there) so you tell me
You and everybody who's still mad are terrible disgraces to your community.
I mean, look at your history, you don't seem friendly or likable at all.
and since when did you or anyone who's still mad represent every other transgender/transsexual?
He tries to make ends with you, bury the hatchet, and you decide to hold a grudge?
Is him comparing you to catshit(then apologizing) really deserving of that irrational statement?
Tell me, why are you the way you are?
Why do you jump to moderate bigotism in this forum?
Everyone else took his apology, but you still have to hold a grudge?
Please, explain to me why this is unnaceptable.
Actually the only thing that I don't like about his decision is that hes married and has a kid, he's only attracted to women, but doesn't mean his wife is going to become a lesbian automatically.
Don't bother arguing with that retarded moron anymore. Platinumcs has taken to rating every post dumb that argues against him. Fuck off.
You're right it's funny because I have always supported LGBT rights on sites like reddit, but my bad analogy sent this thread spiraling out of control and I had to defend myself from transphobe accusations