I have seen basic guides, but I want to start a gaming community with a website, not a server for my friends and I to mess around on. I also want to add some addons, such as ULX Admin mod and PHX Tools. Can anyone help? Also, if there is coding, would anyone be interested in helping? I know I am a complete and utter noob, but I want to start a community, as I want a server with friendly and easygoing admins, and is also professional. I can own a forum/messageboard and a server with good connection for around $40/mo. I will also name it ParadigmRP.
EDIT: Also, does anyone know of a good VPN that is reliable and reasonably priced? I found one, and it is a bit more pricey than most.