I tend to grow fat in my stomach a lot like a beer belly and a muffin top (sides), also i grow fat on my back shoulders, back, face, but everywhere else i don't grow any fats at all, like my legs and arms and hips are VERY skinny but every where else i grow fat and it seems hard for me to loose it no matter what i do :( also i have a flat buttocks :'( i want to have a bubble buttocks that sticks out like a Brazilian butt-lift and a flat stomach with a little bit of abs and skinny shoulders and back. it's like i grow fat in the weridest parts of my body, i want to have a woman's body, something i don't have and it kills my self esteem. One day this woman even thought i was pregnant -__- All my pants don't fit me from the stomach area so it doesn't close but the pants and jeans are saggy from the legs area and some dresses don't sip up from my back fat, but my legs are really skinny and no butt D; Please help me i try ed everything and i really want to change my life style and my looks I'm tired of feeling like this and NOT looking like my age. I'm not exactly sure what foods i have to eat, what kind of foods and what i have to worry about and pay attention too. I want to be on a strict diet and I'm not sure what i have to work on in the gym.