1. Post #3881
    Rammlied's Avatar
    May 2010
    3,939 Posts
    Not to mention Inufin's hair grows atleast 3 feet a day.
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  2. Post #3882
    Turbo Dyke
    .Lain's Avatar
    June 2010
    21,625 Posts
    I might just be an idiot but it looks like you're missing a leg in this photo
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  3. Post #3883
    arachnidsGrip's Avatar
    March 2011
    207 Posts
    Oh hey it's the old Ghost Page thing.
    I grew my hair from like early 2008-late 2011 and it was maybe halfway down my back at it's longest point.
    But having not been touched for almost 4 years it was a bit uh... Terrible. When I finally got it tidied up/shortened a bit the hairdresser offered me all sorts of cool shit. Which I turned down because massive nervouses. So now it's just beyond shoulder length.
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  4. Post #3884
    Turbo Dyke
    .Lain's Avatar
    June 2010
    21,625 Posts
    I feel like the only person here with short hair :/
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  5. Post #3885
    Riodoku's Avatar
    May 2010
    602 Posts
    Honestly, long hair that's been grown on testosterone just looks terrible. It's always frizzy, and it never, ever stays straightened. You're better off with a short, choppy style until you get hormones.
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  6. Post #3886
    Yandere Princess
    Alice3173's Avatar
    April 2010
    22,323 Posts
    Honestly, long hair that's been grown on testosterone just looks terrible. It's alwayss frizzy, and it never, ever stays straightened. You're better off with a short, choppy style until you get hormones.
    From 2007 to 2010 I grew my hair out. I couldn't do shit with it, it just wouldn't cooperate at all... I'd typically just put it up in a ponytail which just kinda resulted in one extremely large curl coming off the back of my head.
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  7. Post #3887
    Delicious Caramel
    Zeldy's Avatar
    June 2006
    1,423 Posts
    Hang in there Zeldy, and everyone else too! c:
    I'm trying. It's still really hard.

    It's not really trans related (although it's still a tiny part of it), but still. Super stressed and the tiniest things make me feel absolutely terrible.

    I actually went to class today thinking it was monday. Texted a girl in my class who I don't really know, and she texted me back saying "uhhh it's sunday".

    So I drove back feeling incredibly stupid and sat there crying in my car for fifteen minutes when I reached home.

    I'm just tired. Of pretty much everything.

    Edited:

    Honestly, long hair that's been grown on testosterone just looks terrible. It's always frizzy, and it never, ever stays straightened. You're better off with a short, choppy style until you get hormones.
    Mine is manageable even though I had it long since before hormones. :c
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  8. Post #3888
    QueenSasha24's Avatar
    April 2011
    1,523 Posts
    Hey everyone, I'll be starting HRT on Thursday, and was planning on making a video of pictures of me from Day 1 to the 1 (year/month/whatever) point, and was wondering if this was a good idea. Figured you all would be best to ask c:
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  9. Post #3889
    Riodoku's Avatar
    May 2010
    602 Posts
    I'm trying. It's still really hard.

    It's not really trans related (although it's still a tiny part of it), but still. Super stressed and the tiniest things make me feel absolutely terrible.

    I actually went to class today thinking it was monday. Texted a girl in my class who I don't really know, and she texted me back saying "uhhh it's sunday".

    So I drove back feeling incredibly stupid and sat there crying in my car for fifteen minutes when I reached home.

    I'm just tired. Of pretty much everything.

    Edited:



    Mine is manageable even though I had it long since before hormones. :c
    Exercise. Seriously. It will make you feel infinitely better about your situation. I used to be incredibly depressed, but then I started running and toning my body, and now I'm pretty happy even though my situation isn't too great. The endorphins your brain receives from exercise exist only to make you feel accomplished, and that's what they'll do for you.
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  10. Post #3890
    Delicious Caramel
    Zeldy's Avatar
    June 2006
    1,423 Posts
    Exercise. Seriously. It will make you feel infinitely better about your situation. I used to be incredibly depressed, but then I started running and toning my body, and now I'm pretty happy even though my situation isn't too great. The endorphins your brain receives from exercise exist only to make you feel accomplished, and that's what they'll do for you.
    I have no time to. :/

    But I'll see what I can do. I usually do sit ups only, and they do make me feel better sometimes.
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  11. Post #3891
    Riodoku's Avatar
    May 2010
    602 Posts
    All you really need to do is jog for maybe 30 minutes a day. That shouldn't be too time consuming.
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  12. Post #3892
    darkmakozu's Avatar
    April 2011
    234 Posts
    Hey everyone, I'll be starting HRT on Thursday, and was planning on making a video of pictures of me from Day 1 to the 1 (year/month/whatever) point, and was wondering if this was a good idea. Figured you all would be best to ask c:
    Woo! Go for it. I'll be doing the same when I start on HRT.
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  13. Post #3893
    Delicious Caramel
    Zeldy's Avatar
    June 2006
    1,423 Posts
    That didn't take long. Jesus I really need to go see my therapist badly. Amazing how one tiny thing can trigger emotions.
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  14. Post #3894
    Oh no, what have I done!
    Dennab
    November 2007
    22,049 Posts
    How do you guys like my title?

    fuck.
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  15. Post #3895
    FPKawaii's Avatar
    June 2010
    6,357 Posts
    I honestly think of shemale as a derogatory term.
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  16. Post #3896
    Gold Member
    Tools's Avatar
    November 2009
    6,449 Posts
    How do you guys like my title?

    fuck.
    I'm not sure whether I'm offended or confused of why you'd waste time and money on such a thing, but I think I have to say the first.

    Either way I want to punch you, sorry.
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  17. Post #3897
    Has volunteered for dissection because the doctor is cute
    Tomo Takino's Avatar
    May 2009
    20,313 Posts
    I'm not sure whether I'm offended or confused of why you'd waste time and money on such a thing, but I think I have to say the first.

    Either way I want to punch you, sorry.
    Someone else bought it, Milkandcooki didnt have a say in it. Unless they asked for it, but I dont know that. Just going by the event log.

    Sure they could change it whenever they like though.
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  18. Post #3898
    Rammlied's Avatar
    May 2010
    3,939 Posts
    I don't find it derogatory or offensive at all, honestly.
    I also think it's silly to want to puns someone because of a word. A word only has value for what it means, and I don't think in said context it's supposed to mean anything offensive.
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  19. Post #3899
    Delicious Caramel
    Zeldy's Avatar
    June 2006
    1,423 Posts
    I try not to let small things like words offend me.
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  20. Post #3900
    Gold Member
    Tools's Avatar
    November 2009
    6,449 Posts
    I'm just tired and grumpy, I could see the worst in puppies at the moment.
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  21. Post #3901
    Riodoku's Avatar
    May 2010
    602 Posts
    I don't find it derogatory or offensive at all, honestly.
    I also think it's silly to want to puns someone because of a word. A word only has value for what it means, and I don't think in said context it's supposed to mean anything offensive.
    I find it rather offensive. It's a term coined by the porn industry, and it's used to objectify and belittle trans people as objects or things.

    Words can be very offensive based on how they came about. Many Indigenous Americans find the term "Native American" to be offensive, because it was only used by colonists as a way to combine all of the indigenous tribes and nations into a single collective.
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  22. Post #3902
    FPKawaii's Avatar
    June 2010
    6,357 Posts
    Like, if someone called me a shemale I would just say like "I wish you wouldn't call me that" instead of making a huge scene about it. It's dumb to be offended by words when people don't know any better.
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  23. Post #3903
    arachnidsGrip's Avatar
    March 2011
    207 Posts
    Honestly, long hair that's been grown on testosterone just looks terrible. It's always frizzy, and it never, ever stays straightened. You're better off with a short, choppy style until you get hormones.
    I'm not sure how accurate this is. Mine was totally awful like you described but having the giant outwards wavy dog-ear bits at the bottom cut off and also conditioner and it's reaching the same length as it was without reforming into frizzy bullshit deposits.
    You've also reminded me that my GP is taking her jolly time getting back to me about psychiatrists and such. It's nearly been a month.
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  24. Post #3904
    QueenSasha24's Avatar
    April 2011
    1,523 Posts
    I'm agreeing with both Riodoku and FPKawaii, I think the word is offensive and mean, but I'm not about to make a big scene about it. I just politely ask them to stop using it.

    Edited:

    Someone else bought it, Milkandcooki didnt have a say in it. Unless they asked for it, but I dont know that. Just going by the event log.

    Sure they could change it whenever they like though.
    Well alright then, I'm not about to get pissed at Milkandcooki just because someone changed their title. (Though I'm not exactly happy at the person who chose the title)

    I guess I just don't like the word since I've been called it once in the past in a hateful manner and it's not very fun.

    Edited:

    *sighs*

    I swear not a day goes by without shit like this happening.

    “Brandi, a transwoman, was murdered last night, shot at 12th and Franklin in Downtown Oakland after an altercation with a man who became enraged and shot her when he realized she was trans. An amazing #oo comrade tried to keep her alive with training learned from the People’s Community Medics, but the cops walked away and the ambulance came too late”

    TLDR: A trans-woman was shot and killed last night by a bigoted fuck and the Oakland PD walked away while she died.

    (Only source so far, newly breaking story.)
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  25. Post #3905
    Gold Member
    biodude94566's Avatar
    July 2006
    6,358 Posts

    (Only source so far, newly breaking story.)
    May want to fix your link, especially to not use facebook's bullshit.

    Also, you from Cali, or just follow something that linked you to the story? :o
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  26. Post #3906
    QueenSasha24's Avatar
    April 2011
    1,523 Posts
    May want to fix your link, especially to not use facebook's bullshit.

    Also, you from Cali, or just follow something that linked you to the story? :o
    Sorry about the link, was in a hurry to get the story out.

    And, A friend linked me to the story.
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  27. Post #3907
    Lulzy's Avatar
    February 2009
    84 Posts
    I mostly wear woman's clothing Jeans, shirts jackets and all that, I just prefer the look and shape of them plus I'm quite short, skinny and fairly feminine so they tend to fit and look decent\better on me then most male clothing which just looks baggy and ugly, I just hate most male orientated clothing.

    I've been doing this since I was 14, I am currently 19 and still wear said clothing, i don't go over the top like tops designed for breasts or woman's 'undergarments' I really don't see the problem with it but some people sure do, does this make me some form of 'trap'?
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  28. Post #3908
    Delicious Caramel
    Zeldy's Avatar
    June 2006
    1,423 Posts
    Note: I'm drunk (again).

    Shameless Q&A session go. (or add me on steam and come talk, I'm super vocal right now)
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  29. Post #3909
    Riodoku's Avatar
    May 2010
    602 Posts
    I fucking hate Oakland. I've been to 19 countries, 39 US states, and countless towns and cities within these places, and Oakland is the only place I have utterly despised.
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  30. Post #3910
    Rammlied's Avatar
    May 2010
    3,939 Posts
    Note: I'm drunk (again).

    Shameless Q&A session go. (or add me on steam and come talk, I'm super vocal right now)
    Do you get tips for your tits?
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  31. Post #3911
    Delicious Caramel
    Zeldy's Avatar
    June 2006
    1,423 Posts
    Do you get tips for your tits?
    I once got a free item in Vindictus for showing off my (growing) breasts, yes.
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  32. Post #3912
    Gold Member
    itzpanda's Avatar
    March 2005
    3,398 Posts
    So, asked dad if he ever could let me borrow my money and he said "Yeah" in a sarcastic tone and said he doesn't even know who she is and if she is even a real girl. I say "Yeah, shes trans" and he responds with "So, she's a guy." and after this, he just went to bed and I started crying, seems like my only way to get to see my girlfriend was just tore away from me, but Candy has been making me feel better and helping me find other ways to see her.
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  33. Post #3913
    Gold Member
    biodude94566's Avatar
    July 2006
    6,358 Posts
    So, asked dad if he ever could let me borrow my money and he said "Yeah" in a sarcastic tone and said he doesn't even know who she is and if she is even a real girl. I say "Yeah, shes trans" and he responds with "So, she's a guy." and after this, he just went to bed and I started crying, seems like my only way to get to see my girlfriend was just tore away from me, but Candy has been making me feel better and helping me find other ways to see her.
    <3
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  34. Post #3914
    Delicious Caramel
    Zeldy's Avatar
    June 2006
    1,423 Posts
    Note: I'm drunk (again).

    Shameless Q&A session go. (or add me on steam and come talk, I'm super vocal right now)
    I really gotta stop this shit, my fucking god.
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  35. Post #3915
    Resident Raccoon
    kaze4159's Avatar
    January 2008
    9,158 Posts
    Reaction image I made.

    Do you still have the St33m mask one?
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  36. Post #3916
    J. Jett's Avatar
    October 2010
    834 Posts
    So there was another photo shoot at school today. I said I didn't want to. I really didn't wanna, but I had no choice. I was told by one of my teachers "But you will have no memories!" (I also told him I was trans before)
    Fuck off, that's exactly what I want - no memories. I don't have a single happy memory from school. I have no friends, I was backstabbed or forgotten by every 'friend' I had, and most of all, school is a place where I could never be myself without being laughed at.
    Godfuckingdamnit.

    /rant
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  37. Post #3917
    l l
    lmao
    Dennab
    December 2011
    10,758 Posts
    So there was another photo shoot at school today. I said I didn't want to. I really didn't wanna, but I had no choice. I was told by one of my teachers "But you will have no memories!" (I also told him I was trans before)
    Fuck off, that's exactly what I want - no memories. I don't have a single happy memory from school. I have no friends, I was backstabbed or forgotten by every 'friend' I had, and most of all, school is a place where I could never be myself without being laughed at.
    Godfuckingdamnit.

    /rant
    one of these days it will be physically possible to hug someone through the internet
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  38. Post #3918
    Has volunteered for dissection because the doctor is cute
    Tomo Takino's Avatar
    May 2009
    20,313 Posts
    one of these days it will be physically possible to hug someone through the internet
    I eagerly await this day.
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  39. Post #3919
    Gold Member
    Tools's Avatar
    November 2009
    6,449 Posts
    So there was another photo shoot at school today. I said I didn't want to. I really didn't wanna, but I had no choice. I was told by one of my teachers "But you will have no memories!" (I also told him I was trans before)
    Fuck off, that's exactly what I want - no memories. I don't have a single happy memory from school. I have no friends, I was backstabbed or forgotten by every 'friend' I had, and most of all, school is a place where I could never be myself without being laughed at.
    Godfuckingdamnit.

    /rant
    You should get the picture taken "while dressed-up", I think it'll help your self-esteem, and then you've got memories to look at on!
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  40. Post #3920
    Gold Member
    littlefoot's Avatar
    June 2007
    842 Posts
    I eagerly await this day.
    Click a sketchy link on accident and get sexually harassed? No thanks!

    Edited:

    So there was another photo shoot at school today. I said I didn't want to. I really didn't wanna, but I had no choice. I was told by one of my teachers "But you will have no memories!" (I also told him I was trans before)
    Fuck off, that's exactly what I want - no memories. I don't have a single happy memory from school. I have no friends, I was backstabbed or forgotten by every 'friend' I had, and most of all, school is a place where I could never be myself without being laughed at.
    Godfuckingdamnit.

    /rant
    I don't want to rate you a heart because it feels like a dick move to me, considering how much I (think I) understand where you're coming from and yet have nothing of any sort of value to tell you.
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