People visit the Netherlands to have sex. A friend of mine received a blow job while smoking a joint in Amsterdam which does sound fun.
I suggest you cease this judgemental, butthurt behaviour as soon as possible or you'll find it very difficult to get along with people or have a girlfriend any-time in the future.
Also the fact that you got so upset about her dating the guy tells me you should probably stop being influenced by other people and what they do and mind your own god-damn business, for the same reason.
He only got a BJ because he was smoking on the street and he was told he couldn't so he asked if he could smoke in one of the little rooms they have and he was so he got a bj so he could finish his joint.
I met a girl, went out to dinner, played the phone game, chatted everyday for the last three weeks. I spent quite a lot of time thinking that a relationship was what I wanted, that in some way would make whole the parts of me that were broken. (Recently gone from 3XL to a size S, one of those personal journeys of inner insight, I won't bore you with the details)
Point is, it clicked earlier today that having a relationship, something that I was starved of for a very long time wasn't going to fix it, about an hour later she calls me and goes on to tell me about how I'm such a great guy, how her life changed after meeting me and that she's never been happier, that she has found someone that will make her life whole.
She is pretty, intelligent and is the classic girl from next door; the entire situation is just a kick in nuts and I'm not sure what to do.
A few days back I made a comment amongst friends (In joke) which was related to my favourite food and how I went about an extremely bizzare way of preparing it and presenting it. So, the next day; having overheard this conversation she went about preparing and presenting this dish not realizing that it was a very obnoxious joke, when I tried to explain the joke to her she didn't understand why it was so and just seemed incapable of grasping why I would say such a long winded thing concerning preparation.
I'm worried that she would take everything I said seriously and not know when I was simply joking or when I was very serious.
"Only losers self-rate"
but I'm late. let me late myself damnit.
Girl makes you happy, you make girl happy, go for it.
My family like her, my friends like her and my co-workers just think she is a bundle of fun to have visiting the office, bringing people's lunch orders.
She has sorta filled in a lot of gaps for many people central to my daily life but hasn't filled the gaps for me.
Just go for it dude.
You never know until you try
Will this open up new experiences for you? YES.
That's more than enough reason.
This is a chance to learn about yourself and another person, AND to have a good time while doing it.
Just do it. What have you got to lose?
My half glass full reflex is kicking into overdrive, I don't want to hurt her more later if things go badly, ya know?
Even if she leaves you, you'll have hopefully learned something.
Stop being an angsty tool and be glad you're not missing an limb, have AIDS or third degree burns all over your body. Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths and make the most of all these splendid opportunities you've been given.
We regret the things we've done less than the things we haven't done
Stop thinking so much, as it leads to zero actions and therefore zero progress. We think we know everything, but until we've done it, we know nothing. Knowledge is theoretical, wisdom is practical.
^That sentence goes both ways; for you and her. Yes, she might get hurt, but she might also realize what is it she's looking for.
Almost every girl I've met wanted kids, and I don't. I'm still looking for that one girl who does not want children. Call me selfish, I just don't want children.
Have a girlfriend who's really sweet and nice and beautiful, and most of the time it all goes really well. It's just that she's kind of insecure about herself, has a lot of emotional baggage and I have to handle things really carefully - I've made a few mistakes before and hurt her really bad.
Have any of you guys encountered problems like that? How did you handle it?
Worst is, she'll say no, you'll feel bad for a short while and realise there are so many girls out there. I'd understand getting hurt IF you was in love and was with her for a long time.
What if she says yes? You'll never know and regret not asking.
I'd like to have kids, doesn't mean I'd like to have them now. Probably not for another 10 years, but one day.
Fuck it. Just fuck it all. I always manage to screw everything up with the one girl I love.
I said lets start a relationship, 20 minutes later she was at my doorstep with shake n bake pancakes and Super 8 on BluRay.